Men and women "are" different physically and that difference should be a source of joy and even greater respect. However, that would require that our relations with the opposite sex be kept in context, which is made difficult because the world we all must navigate in our daily lives is molded to the male perspective and inherent dominance.

When men are required to be "alphas" to gain the respect of their fellows, regardless of any necessity or enhanced contribution from that, and part of being an alpha involves the possession of sexual prowess and attraction, the part of females as the target of that prowess is somewhat assumed.

Men waste a lot of energy on such nonsense and it promotes a hardened and unnecessarily competitive society. We would all, not just women, be better for paying less attention to the sexual dynamics where they have no place in context.